I got to know him, who is my
cousin's boyfriend and is a
math teacher at high school,
for a few days ago.
My cousin recommended to
let me know some solutions
of real hard
math problems by him
and I expected to be taught
without any
emotional conflict, but there
came an invisible problem
following after it.
He started his teaching with
firm tone, like "No, it shouldn't
be in that way." sounded like
he resumes his opinions are
right, but others' opinions are
less important. It made me
feel somewhat uncomfortable
at that moment, and more
than that, at that first meeting
which is short of
experience of each other,
he indirectly mentioned me
that my potential power of
math is INFERIOR. That was
actually coming as a serious
advice to me, but it seemed
like rude and overly
influencing his opinion on
other's area in a way
that is not to be respected
enough.
I think such advice can be
mentioned after acquainted
each other well.
Very personally, he seemed
a bit authoritarian.
By time passes, I asked him
several questions and
praised his ability sincerely
and I thought and felt like
he looks down on me, maybe
because he may regard me as
a person who boasts as if
knows math or science
but in fact don't know
anything.
Actually, he is a graduate of
Seoul National University
so he may have some pride
of that, I suppose.
So after math problems
solution subject was done,
I, my cousin, and he walked
the street, and I asked him
without ill intension.
"Your ability is really
astounding, and it is
undeniable, so let me ask you,
did you ever think about
working at Daechi
math academy?"
At that moment, he barely
answered with
embarrassment, he explained
that he was often refused
from there because his
performance was not good.
He kind of defended himself
the reason was his
educational philosophy
didn't align with the culture of
Daechi.
Well, I didn't intend any
malicious effect or offend,
but to think of then, it resulted
as I gave his offensive advice
back to him.
We had an exercise time for
about 40 minutes and
it was over in the late
afternoon.
Each of us went home,
exercise made me feel much
refreshing, but his offensive
advice still stimulates
my nerve.
I didn't ask for judging my
potential ability at the first
sight, who asked?...
who asked to interfere into
other's potentiality is like
what?
For some period, I
will delay to
see him again with my cousin
or I think I can get argue
with him.
What a damn shit
I never expected such an
unpleasant man.
Since my cousin prefers him
that much, I shouldn't pick
a fight with him so
I am just keeping
silence and putting distance
from him.
I even think he is putting an
artificial mask on the face, but
it maybe
my misunderstanding,
just hope my
such thoughts are incorrect.
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